the model of relationship development describes
Students who work in small groups perform at higher intellectual levels. True or False?
True
The model of relationship development that describes people's relationship as changing based on important positive and negative events in their relationship is called the _____________ model.
Turning point model
Which of the following is NOT helpful in communicating ethically across cultures?
Relying on your beliefs as something to stand by
_____________ theory suggests that leaders are born with natural communication skills, personality characteristics, and physical characteristics that enable them to be better leaders.
Trait
We get to know people along two dimensions: breadth and depth. The theory that explains this process is known as _____ theory.
Social Penetration Theory
Secondary groups meet to ______________?
Solve Problems
The __________ approach to understanding intercultural communication emphasizes that things may exist as two opposing concepts simultaneously.
Dialect
According to uncertainty reduction theory, if we find someone desirable after initial attempts to reduce uncertainty, we are likely to back off and let them pursue us to determine reciprocal interest. True or False?
False
The theory that emphasizes tensions experienced between contradictory but connected interpersonal needs is called _________ theory.
Relational Dialectic
Culture defined
Totality of learned, shared symbols, language, values, and norms that distinguish one group of people from another
In-groups
Groups of people with which a person identifies
Out-groups
Groups of people with which a person does not identity
Individualistic cultures
People believe their primary responsibility is to themselves. (Responsible for yourself)
Collectivistic cultures
People believe their primary responsibility is to their families, communities, and employers. (Interested in groups success)
Low-context culture
People are expected to be direct and say what they mean. Direct, clear statements are valued
High-context culture
People are taught to speak in an indirect, inexplicit way. "Beat around the bush" or "talk around" the subject
Low-power distance
People believe that no one person or group should have excessive power. (Smaller distance)
High-power distance
Certain groups, such as the royal family of the members of the ruling political party, have much greater power than the average citizen. (Believe theres a significant difference within regular people)
Monochronic culture
People view time as a finite and tangible commodity. Save time, spend time, invest time, fill time, waste time, lose time, make time, "time is money"
Polychronic culture
People view time as fluid, holistic and infinite. Time is a never-ending river
Intensifying (Knapps stages)
Getting to know each other better
Integrating (Knapps stages)
Becoming joined at the hip
Bonding (Knapps stages)
Marriage, made of honor, best man
Healthiest ratio of positive to negative comments in a relationship
5:1
Gottman can predict divorce with _______ accuracy
90%
Contempt
sarcasm, cynicism, name-calling, eye-rolling, sheering, mockery, and hostile humor. Actions that convey disgust
Defensiveness example
"The problem isn't me, it's you."
Stonewalling
Ignoring your partner, being unresponsive to messages, not providing any feedback
Masculine culture
Ambition, achievement, acqusition of material good
Feminine culture
Nurturance, quality of life, service to others
Uncertainty avoidant cultures
People try to avoid situations that are unstructered, undear,or unpredictable. Drawn to familiarity, unlike taking risks, and tend to favor rules and laws.
Uncertainty accepting cultures
People are open to new situations and more accepting of people and ideas that are different from their own. "Live and let live."
Need to belong theory
Each of us is born with a drive to seek, form, maintain, and protect strong social relationships
4 main factors spark attraction
Appearance, proximity, similarity, complementarity
Uncertainty reduction theory
People find uncertainty to be unpleasant, so they are motivated to reduce their uncertainty by getting to know others. As uncertainty about a person decreases, liking for that person increases
Social exchange theory
People seek to maintain relationships in which their benefits outweigh the costs
Comparison level
A realistic expectation of what one wants and things are derives from a relationship
Comparison level of alternatives
As assessment of how much better or worse one's current relationship is that one's other options (start considering how else to spend your time)
Equity theory
A good relationship is one in which a persons ratio of costs and benefits is equal to his or her parents
Social penetration theory
The breadth and depth of self-disclosure help us learn about a person we're getting to know. Ex: The onion, trying to figure out the layers of people
Diaspora
Whole groups of people are displaced to new countries as they flee genocide or other untenable conditions or are taken forcefully against their will
Peacebuilding
Working toward stability in a region to prevent conflicts from escalating into war
Intercultural communication
Interactions between two people who are culturally different
Heterogeneous
Diverse
Border dwellers
People who live between cultures and often experience contradictory cultural patterns
Voluntary short-term travelers
People who are border dwellers by choice and for a limited time, such as study abroad students or corporate personnel
Voluntary long-term travelers
People who are border dwellers by choice and for an extended time, such as immigrants
Involuntary short-term travelers
People who are border dwellers not by choice and only for a limited time, such as refugees forced to move